THE PROBLEM OF EDUCATION OF CHILDREN IN THE AFRICAN COMMUNITY IN EUROPE .
For many African families of immigrants in Europe; aside the problem of paper which is a great puzzle, that of raising children and the stability of homes is second shots.
I propose to consider in this paper on this issue given its importance. But also, I will look into this matter contained in the exponential increase in crime found among young Africans in their community and Kongola here Europe. Although a psychiatrist or a specialist teacher of the child could look better there and we bring out a well-considered approach and scientific about this. But since this is a problem that affects us all on the one hand and as no work of high authority on this subject is circulating in our communities. As a citizen and parent Kongola, that is why I want to give this spot welcomes the opportunity to reflect together with you to make a modest contribution to this matter how difficult.
is following a broadcast on Radio lisolo animated Mama Chantal Nkosi who was considered the problem of education of children in the Diaspora dated 26 septembre2009 last. I really saw the need to write this final article, because throughout his show several speakers seeking has dissect the relevance of this problem and have thought about ways to find solutions that can help parents who find themselves in similar situations or confront a situation like this has to learn how. This problem is so difficult to find a linear solution since first falling of a sudden shock lasts from the meeting of two cultures and values quite different approaches and subject also to the morality of the parents themselves, has had a very hard one pieces be shared 'between various stakeholders.
course that the basic responsibility in the upbringing of children is good or bad work carried out by parents at home. The family is the basic unit of society tells you. It alone offers a true training ground of the positive or negative to the child. And parents are the drivers of the family, they are the centerpiece in this equation of the child and his future behavior. At this point a problem of consciousness and the state of human baggage of the parents was as address, as stated a bit earlier. Because it so aptly: " it gives only what we have! . "A parent can pass on to her child that the moral and human values that he himself, not otherwise.
However, parents complain, consider a fair value that their children want to live outside the social margin. That is why they have so much trouble with the police for example, and in some cases end up in prison, under the supply of all kinds of drugs or prostitution. Here alluding to the culture of gangistartisme very popular in many poor neighborhoods Europe. Parents often throw the blame on the European education system and social security system. Many parents believe that interventionism social system in operation, severely limiting their level of authority that entant parents and make them ineffective to act properly in the lives of their children. Not to mention the problem of habitat in England for example, or a lot of places are Kongola immigrants by government programs for housing in poor neighborhoods than in good standing English refuse to live cad homes' council houses ".
Yet it must be stressed here that the issue is not so simple case. It is true that living in Europe as an immigrant 'parents must submit to the social system of the host country and even free housing program offered to them by their host countries The case of England, there is no negotiation possible to do!
However the length of time the child spends with the family with his parents since childhood to age or formal education begins in earnest. This period is a window of gold by which parents can lay a solid foundation for the child only when he finally has to steal his own wings to fly, that momentum is already put the house in the neighborhood and the community. This allowed him to keep his plan to steal and not get lost. And this is a process as said above, which should start very early age. Some might say that when the child is still in the breasts of his mother, parents should talk to him at all times with affection by inculcating positive values.
It is true that parents are from a culture approaches and sometimes different values to the culture of the host country. It was here that parents should be prepared for a compromise, a mixer, a symbiosis that should give an approach has the child have the ability to accommodate the positive values of the culture of his parents and positive values it will encounter in the new company, enabling it to develop a strong character. The child can not be forced to live life to the way of reality Kinshasa or Kabeya Kamwanga while it is in Europe! At this point parents have to do violence and seek to adapt to the new reality. They must see how to incorporate new things without destroying the whole cultural heritage acquired Kongo who are our pride in this equation. It is also true that parents have a very difficult task to play because the clash of cultures is a big and strong for both parents themselves, there is a great metamorphosis that takes place in them that they must be able digest and control: in work habits, entertainment and even religion, so a serious effort must be consented.
Only an organization of a community of strong and united Kongola or parent should discuss their problems or a strong church that will help parents ensure a fair framework is very necessary at this level. It will equip parents with useful knowledge for this great task.
For my part, I think as Mark said so gorged " culture is the soul of a people, any people who abandon their culture is like uprooting a tree that will eventually merge into the abyss that causes all dominations.
understanding of what we are, all the values that make us Bantu, and black and a legacy of very high charges that can never be destroyed so easily. Because without the understanding and the understanding of our world view as was done before us and our ancestors, it is difficult to be a culture able to contribute productively to the great event of giving and receiving. And without it we would still be the tail and never the head. Always finds that the West invented and directs any and we follow and take as our own, like sheep, that is where we are now!
In this case it is difficult to give estimates and the true meaning of love is to our children, looking all around them is Western and is controlled by the West. So they feel like an unnecessary element in the human family who contributes nothing and can not contribute, they have no dreams to follow! The English say that among the magic recipes for success in life, I must quote: "follow your dream .." follow your dream . But it is the African dream? It is the dream Kongola? To crowd in Europe and do everything to bring the whole of Africa and in Europe? Prepare for life? ie do everything to get money? The is a serious problem and, if not address, we can not move forward.
Parent, we have a moral, historical, even before the designer can go out into the laziness of thought and belief-made and seek to rediscover the African dream. And then transmit it to our children. Every nation in this world and the fact and we, we can not make an exception! "
Sometimes I wonder if the behavior of our children is not an inquiry to our conscience? Asking a sincere question their behavior, the question what is the legacy you bequeath?
Every parent know the child's special place in society and being African, I do not think anyone can explain a good part we same consideration and we give up the family and the child. Why do we not want to think? why do we head in the sand and we put our heads in the sand?
The child is special. And children born today in the world are very, very special. They are our salvation, because they came to bring us release our inner being. Their rebellion has on society and a cry of alarm that is intended to bring us back to order. That's why Mfumu Kimbangu had announced so well as the 5th generation BANA YA BA Bilak MANGONGELE ". The West also know and acknowledge today his children and call them special, Indigos CHILDREN OR THE CHILDREN OF THE STARS . Only the Kongola followers distracted as usual and do not know, they look a what they still take that knowledge on a platter of gold as was the case even with the Bible Roman sour? We greatly regret the impact these days!
Bilak BANA YA REN Indigos.
Bana is Bilak, here is a concept that is about to vanish in Kongola and become even a property of the West because Kongola always distracted. "Woe to him who has always late" is often said nlong Kongo Do Muanda Semi. Europe is called the Indigos or CHILD OF THE STARS, on his part for his indigo children, there are many ways to put their profits in order to provide outstanding education for their help in the future of Europe, America In Australia and the same thing. If it is in their camp but at home, how is the usual total sleep time with slogans like: "AZALI KOYA NA Makolo EZALI Nzela. The Indigo children are born worldwide since the year already 1980 a little further, but a large majority were born in the last decade and continues to be born. Maybe you're even in your home. Just watch your child very well, you go see that one of them may have aspects of awakening very remarkable and exceptional. It is different from others in its approach, asking questions was to refuse to accede to your amount of stored beliefs etc ... It is a INDIGO, a special child!! In Kinshasa, unfortunately, they have been demonized 'and called' in most cases of child witches because they are born with a full awareness and sometimes a great opening that we do not understand and therefore we call magic. In Kenya, for example a group of Western researchers with a phenomenon observed with some bizzard children born of HIV infected but who at the age of 5 years seems to have recovered the body as if by magic. This is because of their indigo formation of DNA is a bit special and different to ours. The vast majority of Cheguer are Indigos. Poor Kongola in peace and regain lost! These are INDIGO, BANA NA Bilak, CHILDREN OF STARS. These children were as stated above if the characteristic of being rebellious because our social order is established based on falsehood, lies, injustice and lack of love. In the inner depths of their souls, the Indigos and the feel we want to help but none of us do not see this through Kongola huge Tata Nzambi. What do we need them? Woe to you my people Kongola !!!!!!